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From R Rimon

ג) תפלת “יזכור” (שבד’ המועדים) נתקנה לכל יחיד ויחיד, לאומרה לעי”נ הורים וקרובים, ותפלת אמ”ר נתקנה בשביל הש”ץ. כי על כן בתפלת יזכור אומר נשמת אבי או אמי או קרובי פב”פ בעבור שאתן או שנתתי צדקה בעדו או בעדה, ובתפלת אמ”ר אומר נשמת פב”פ בעבור שנדב או נדבו בעבור הזכרת נשמתו אז נשמתה או נשמותיהם.

c) The Yizkor prayer (recited on the four festivals) was instituted for each and every individual to recite on behalf of the souls of parents and relatives. The El Malei Raḥamim prayer, however, was instituted for the ḥazzan (prayer leader) to recite.

Therefore, in the Yizkor prayer one says: “the soul of my father,” “the soul of my mother,” or “the soul of my relative, so-and-so, the son/daughter of so-and-so,” because I shall give, or have given, charity on his or her behalf.

In the El Malei Raḥamim prayer, by contrast, one says: “the soul of so-and-so, the son/daughter of so-and-so,” because he (or they) pledged, or others pledged, charity for the mention of his soul; therefore may his soul (or their souls) be [bound in eternal life].

Me-It seems the common practice is to promise to give in the future. Wouldn’t it be more logical to first give and then ask?

 

A note re: Mishpacha magazine and an article therein: https://cross-currents.com/2026/07/04/extended-family-4/ Me-One wonders if Mishpacha has a “red team” to read the articles from a contrary position so as to strengthen the reporting and efficacy of the argumentation, or a “blue team” to make sure all the home team buttons are pushed? In any event one might be interested in the following https://download.yutorah.org/1998/905/704426/facing-the-truths-of-history.pdfincluding: A number of years ago, Rabbi Shimon Schwab wrote: 233 What ethical purpose is served by preserving a realistic historic pic ture? Nothing but the satisfaction of curiosity. We should tell our selves and our children the good memories of the good people, their unshakable faith, their staunch defense of tradition, their life of truth, their impeccable honesty, their boundless charity and their great reverence for Torah and Torah sages. What is gained by point ing out their inadequacies and their contradictions? We want to be inspired by their example and learn from their experience. . . . Rather than write the history of our forebears, every generation has to put a veil over the human failings of its elders and glorify all the rest which is great and beautiful. That means we have to do with out a real history book. We can do without. We do not need real ism, we need inspiration from our forefathers in order to pass it on to posterity.138 How ironic it is that, as we “tell ourselves and our children” about the “life of truth” and “impeccable honesty” of “the good people,” we need not be truthful and honest ourselves.

As a side point, has their rabbinic board ever discussed at least including a note about magazine reading on shabbat and the issur of shtarei hedyotot (maybe throw in lo taturu as well?)

 

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Joel Rich

Joel Rich is a frequent wannabee cyberspace lecturer on various Torah topics. A Yerushalmi formerly temporarily living in West Orange, NJ, his former employer and the Social Security administration support his Torah listening habits. He is a recovering consulting actuary.

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